No Answer: What Next

The latest activity on online dating has turned into a wonderful night. The initial date was simply great - you have had several minutes of eye contact, laughed a lot and enjoyed the time to the fullest. Though, the dating event was excellent from your point of view, right now, he / she does not answer neither to phone nor to messages. Why could this be? It is the moment when you should acknowledge the perspectives of the situation.

Get active
Though, it is really hard because you were very enthusiastic about the dating game, you have given him / her a few days to put in order its thoughts. But there is no written text and no phone call! If you are in such a situation, you should take action on your own. Tell it that you enjoyed the dating night very much and ask if it feels the same way.

If you take into consideration our busy world, there is the possibility it was unable because of a good cause. In this case there is a real chance for subsequent dates in the near future. But what if it is not really interested in you?

Broken promises
As a consequence of a beautiful encounter, great hopes spark in your mind and soul. Then, disappointment takes the place of happiness because of, mostly, your own expectations. Perhaps you might have already imagined how it would be to have a common relationship.

The 'no answer" state takes you from the dating dream back into the cruel reality. So, it is advisable you end up the mighty dream and seek the dating harmony.

1. Act correctly
Sometimes, our feelings blur the clear view of the events' chain. If you see all the things through your rose-colored glasses, there is no surprise some clear signals or difficult topics become some drawbacks almost impossible to overcome. Let us assume the wonderful conversation, suddenly, takes an awful turn. Why? Is it because you came to talk about the a few hundred miles distance you would have to overcome both in a relationship.

2. Love yourself
In any case, avoid self-judgment and also focus on the positive aspects. If your appointment went very well, in your view, then hold that memory. Keep in mind that you are a lovable person with whom it is fun to spend time with. Try to discover what went well. This kind of attitude helps you not remain stuck in false self-assessments.

3. No answer: go on
Most important: every dream has an end. You have to consider this outcome, too. Even if it is painful, you should draw a line. The whole story with your dating companion has after all a sad finale. At this moment it can help you if you tell it to someone else.

Look attractive
Have you done that? You can look forward liberated. You know how to classify the course of your dating events and how to draw the right conclusions. This gives you back the self-assurance that increases your attractiveness. An additional dose of self-confidence helps you proceed in online dating and traditional dating with even a greater success.

Wednesday, 11 January 2012 14:53